I honestly don't get the negativity related to this. If I was coach Gilbert I would probably turn down the first offer as well. I would've known that I was the current top candidate, I already had a job so I wasn't desperate, and Texas wanted to fill the spot ASAP. He had all the leverage. That's how you negotiate. UT was trying to get him at a lower cost and it didn't work. So they would go back with another offer. However, the media got a hold of the original turn down and blew it way out of proportion which have Gilbert even more leverage to get anything he wanted. Had the media circus not followed this, then Texas would have their new OC coach within 1 week after the season and we would be happy about it for them not dragging their feet. But no, the media had to be on this for every second of everyday. I blame them (mostly) for this fiasco.
Bottom line, Texas got their man (albeit 2nd choice) within 1 week after the end of the season. That is pretty darn fast, even in today's "I want it now" world. Also, Gilbert did what everyone of us should have done in his situation and NEGOTIATED for what he wanted to uproot his family to a new area.